To the sensitive soul who feels misunderstood in their relationships or stuck in toxic dynamics...
It's time to create a relationship where you feel deeply loved, deeply supported, and deeply seen for who you truly are.
✨ Transform your relationship patterns with Human Design and psychology ✨
You're an emotionally sensitive person who's dreaming of a solid, warm, loving relationship where you can be your true self
(whether you're single or in a committed relationship).
But you're frustrated...
because even though you've worked hard
in your relationships, read all the self-help books,
and maybe even have gone to therapy,
you still haven't gotten what you want.
And you wonder if you're actually capable of having it.
You've got some serious questions and worries about this looping around in your mind,
like...
- Why do I feel like I have to work so hard to earn love from other people?
- Why do I keep experiencing and repeating the same relationship patterns, even though they’re clearly not working for me?
Or maybe you're...
- Constantly worrying about whether your partner truly loves you
- Prioritizing your partner’s needs over your own, where you’ve lost sight of your own needs and desires
- Experiencing extreme emotional highs and lows in your relationship, where it feels like a constant roller coaster that you just can’t seem to get off of
- Repeatingly choosing romantic partners who are emotionally unavailable or narcissistic
The Truth NO One's Telling You
While most people think that traditional self-help methods or therapy are enough to transform their relationships, true relationship transformation only comes when you decondition and reprogram your conditioned emotional responses so that they're aligned with your true values and goals.
And NOT doing this is costing you dearly.
Because if you continue to stay stuck in the same relationship patterns:
- In 6 months: You'll still be in the same place, caught in the same cycles of relationship problems and anxiety.
- In one year: Another year will have passed of you allowing your conditioned emotional responses to control the outcomes of your relationships...which means you'll just keep missing out on creating deeper, more fulfilling relationships.
- And in your lifetime? It'll be a lifetime of unfulfilled relationships and uneccesary emotional turmoil.
Because Nothing Changes if Nothing Changes.
BUT, INSTEAD...IMAGINE WHAT IT WOULD FEEL LIKE TO...
Wake up in the morning feeling clear on how to create the relationship that you want, where you completely trust yourself and feel solid and secure in the love that your relationship brings.
Feel like you can be yourself in your relationships and where you are able to stay much more even-keeled emotionally. When you do experience strong emotions, you know how to express them in ways where you feel heard.
End each day knowing you've honored your authentic self, nurtured your relationships, and been nurtured by your relationships.
Where life feels abundant, expansive, joyful,
and empowering,
instead of worrisome and draining.
FROM BROKEN RELATIONSHIP TO BREAKTHROUGH CONNECTION
Hey, I'm Nicole--your psychology and Human Design guide for relationships that actually work.
I know firsthand the gut-wrenching pain of watching your "perfect" relationship crumble despite your best efforts...
In fact, I waited until 45 to finally marry my soulmate, only to find myself—just one year later—quietly packing a bag to escape the very marriage I had dreamed about. I felt like I was suffocating in my own home.
With my psychology background, I understood relationships operate as systems. So why was mine failing so spectacularly?
THE MOMENT I STOPPED WAITING FOR MY HUSBAND TO CHANGE
The truth hit me like a lightning bolt: I needed to stop trying to fix him and start transforming myself.
I had to clean up my side of the street first if we had any chance at all. Thankfully, I had tools others didn't—I just wasn't using them correctly.
THE MISSING LINK: WHERE PSYCHOLOGY MEETS HUMAN DESIGN
Did you know? Studies show that 67% of couples who understand their core personality patterns report significantly improved relationship satisfaction within just 3 months.
I'd been studying and teaching Human Design for years, but there was a massive gap between my intellectual understanding and actually applying it in my most painful moments.
So I asked myself: how could I use the shadows in my Human Design chart to stop being emotionally triggered? How could I break the negative cycles destroying our connection?
We were both operating from the lowest expressions of our designs, and with our relationship hanging by a thread, I had nothing to lose.
FROM KNOWING BETTER TO ACTUALLY DOING BETTER…
I began using my Human Design chart not just as information but as a moment-by-moment guide to break free from the patterns destroying my marriage:
- Setting authentic boundaries based on my true design
- Making decisions aligned with my nature, not from reactivity
- Regulating my anxiety and anger before communicating
- Extending an invitation for change through my own transformation
My belief was simple but powerful: By shifting my energy and behavior, I would create space for my husband to respond differently.
And slowly, beautifully, things began to change—not just in my marriage, but in my entire life.
WHY MOST RELATIONSHIP ADVICE FAILS (AND WHAT ACTUALLY WORKS)
When I started sharing these techniques with clients, I noticed something fascinating:
They too had intellectual knowledge about their Human Design but weren't embodying it in everyday interactions. Some didn't even know that was possible. Many were as desperate to save their relationships as I had been.
THE TRUTH: YOUR RELATIONSHIP PROBLEMS AREN'T CAUSED BY WHAT YOU THINK
Your struggle isn't from lack of knowledge—
it's from not embodying the wisdom already within you.
When you align your actions with your authentic design,
relationship transformation isn't just possible—it's inevitable.
INTRODUCING...
Decondition & Align
A transformational program built on my Relationship Recode Method—a step-by-step process specifically designed for sensitive, intuitive people who feel stuck in painful relationship patterns.
This program helps you:
- Break free from relationship conditioning that keeps you repeating the same painful patterns
- Align with your highest relationship potential hidden in your Human Design chart
- Stop sacrificing your authenticity to keep the peace
- Get crystal clear on what you truly desire in love and how to manifest it
This isn't just another collection of techniques—it's a comprehensive roadmap guiding you from relationship struggle to authentic love that lasts, whether you're single or committed.
Here's What the Decondition & Align Program Includes:
Pre-Work Module:
Honoring Yourself and Your Past
(OPTIONAL BUT HIGHLY RECOMMENDED)
- Emotional inventory
- Tools for healing and letting go of emotional pain from the past
Why Your Relationship(s) Can’t Function Optimally Without Deconditioning
- What deconditioning really is and why it's so important for aligned relationships
- Learn the easiest deconditioning process on the planet
Decondition Your Type, Strategy, and Authority
- Mastering your true self
Decondition Your Undefined & Open Centers
- Transforming the conditioned responses in your openness
Decondition Your Splits
- If you have a simple split or quad split in your Human Design chart
The Love Gates Protocol
- Let go of your conditioning around love and connection based on your unique Love Gates
Stop Any Obsessive Relationship Patterns in Their Tracks
- Become aware of your relationship blind spots
Let Go of Generational Curses and Family Trauma
- It was never yours to carry in the first place
Prepare to Attract Healthy, Happy Relationships
- Based on the highest frequencies in your Human Design chart
- Whether you’re single or in a committed relationship
PLUS
Four Q&A Calls:
Get any questions answered in person with 4 live calls.
Email Support in Between Calls:
In between live calls, email me with any questions and I will respond within 48 hours.
OOOOH, AND DON'T FORGET THIS AMAZING BONUS WHEN YOU ACT TODAY!
Bonus:
1:1 Human Design Coaching Session with Me
(30 minutes)
1:1 Human Design coaching session with me (30 minutes), where we create a roadmap for you together so you can get the most out the program based on your unique Human Design chart and what you want to accomplish in the program.
VALUE OF $250, But yours free with the Decondition & Align Program
JOIN DECONDITION & ALIGN TODAY!
9 Core Program Modules
VALUED AT $1297
BONUS (1:1 Human Design Coaching Session)
VALUED AT $250
Four live Q&A calls
VALUED AT $997
Email support
VALUED AT $500
THAT'S A TOTAL VALUE OF $3,044...BUT IF YOU JOIN THE UPCOMING BETA LAUNCH, YOU'LL GET AN AMAZING 85% DISCOUNT!
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Check out the program for 7 days and if you're not completely satisfied, simply email us at hi@hdpsychologist.com and you will get a full refund, with no questions asked.
YOU MAY HAVE SOME QUESTIONS...
AND I HAVE THE ANSWERS!
Human Design is a tool for self-discovery that combines astrology, the Chinese I-Ching, the Kabbalah, and the chakra system to provide you with a personalized “blueprint” of how your energy operates best in the world.
You will get immediate access to Modules 0-1 upon purchase with a login. The rest of the modules will be released two per week, with a two week break before the release of Modules 7 and 8.
No, the course will explain everything in simple steps, so it's perfect for both beginners and seasoned Human Design devotees. Feel free to bring any and all questions you have to the Q&A calls. There are no dumb questions.
Great! Please email us at hi@hdpsychologist.com.
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